Main Idea:
How do you sound? Have you taped yourself and actually listened to how you sound on the phone or in person? Do you sound like the teacher in Ferris Bueller’s Day Off?
Expansion of the Idea:
Several things have happened this week that have reinforced to me the need to make sure that we know what our communications sound like. My son is helping my office during tax season. He brings energy and enthusiasm to the phone. A high school friend and client called and talked to him. After hearing how he answered the phone, my friend told me that my son should be promoted to managing partner. We joked about that but then I started thinking about how my communications have slipped. They have been professional but I allow busyness and distraction to get in the way. I don’t bring that same enthusiasm and energy to every interaction. I suspect that most people don’t. Yet that is how you built your business to begin with. A relentless focus on the other person will build a business. That brings up the other issue that happened this week. I talked to a client about his tax records and I said a few things that I meant but the client heard something different. The client has had a rough year and I should have thought about his position first. I can’t back down from doing the right thing but I can do a better job of empathizing with the client and helping him get to the right spot. This is a critical skill that I have to get right. I deeply offended the client and we ended up meeting. He understood what I meant and he accepted my apology but what would happen if he just switched accounting firms. We don’t always get a second chance to explain ourselves. We need to make sure we do it right.
Points to Ponder:
- Energy – do you show it in all interactions?
- Enthusiasm – does this spill out from you?
- Empathy – do you look for situations where this is required?